After you've found a clear vision for your child's care, discuss it with your child's pediatrician and talk about building your care team. It is critically important that you and your care team fully understand each other. Think of your child's healthcare providers as a part of the team, the pediatrician as the captain and you as the coach. If the pediatrician or any member of the team isn't comfortable with your philosophy of care, find a different provider! Remember, you know what is best for your child and your family. When the team communicates and works well together, the quality of the child's care and the family's experience is vastly improved.
Create a Care Plan
There are several ways to get your ideas for a care plan together. NTSAD with Courageous Parents Network has a template for a care plan that could help you walk through this process.
Download NTSAD Care Plan Template here.
Download CPN's Care Plan Book here.
Can I Change My Philosophy of Care?
Absolutely! A philosophy of care is meant to guide you through difficult care decisions but isn't written in stone. This most frequently comes up when discussing feeding tubes (NG and G). Sometimes, when parents initially decide against a feeding tube, they find that decision too difficult to implement when their child's swallowing becomes a real issue. It is OK to adjust your philosophy of care; return to the initial process: get your child stable and comfortable; get your head and heart in a quiet place and listen.
Our pediatrician held everything together for us
I always want parents to know they have a choice
A pediatric palliative care nurse shares how the team typically knows a lot about the pros and cons of medical interventions and also how the diseases typically progress, which allows them to be proactive with the family while also reminding the parents that they truly have choices. It’s not about the child NEEDING this or NEEDING that. “There are risks and benefits to everything that we bring.”
(The mom of two sons with mitochondrial disease and their pediatric palliative care nurse talk about how they work together to get her sons comfortable.)